two spiritual communities - 12-Step Recovery and New Thought.
If somebody in your life tells you that they have quit drinking – whether for good, or for a few months – they have already soul-searched, agonised, researched, and thought dang long and dang hard about this decision. They will have tried moderation literally thousands of times already. They’ll tell you their reasons when they’re ready to. You’re on a “need to know” basis rather than a “right to know.” The fear of the “why aren’t you drinking?” question often keeps people stuck inside their drinking.